>>> phonePattern = re.compile(r'''
# don't match beginning of string, number can start anywhere
(\d{3}) # area code is 3 digits (e.g. '800')
\D* # optional separator is any number of non-digits
(\d{3}) # trunk is 3 digits (e.g. '555')
\D* # optional separator
(\d{4}) # rest of number is 4 digits (e.g. '1212')
\D* # optional separator
(\d*) # extension is optional and can be any number of digits
$ # end of string
''', re.VERBOSE)
>>> phonePattern.search('work 1-(800) 555.1212 #1234').groups() 1
('800', '555', '1212', '1234')
>>> phonePattern.search('800-555-1212') 2
('800', '555', '1212', '')